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Try oral action, with the tongue gently circling the clitoris and hood with a mix of pressure. A pleasurable work in progress If a certain technique doesn’t get your headspace on . "The clit is actually shaped like a wishbone, with these two legs that go down and surround the vaginal opening. And those legs are a great way to have extra stimulation during penetration." Plus, stimulating the clitoris makes the G-spot more pronounced and therefore easier to locate, she adds. "Even just prepping with clit play is going to.